You are being taken out several times with whom you think is a perfect gentleman and then the tables turn on you. He doesn’t tell you how beautiful you are, send you flowers, take you for granted, while he is out doing what he wants to do and expects you to be waiting on you when he gets home. There are times when you have to put your foot down letting him (or her) know that you have your own thing and you will not hold on much longer.

It’s strange how things can turn around to the point where after dating , people become too comfortable in their own skin and avoid the responsibility of being in a relationship. How you attracted that person should be used to also keep the person you are seeing. And within the relationship, make it exciting enough to keep the fires burning. Soon if you don’t keep doing what you were doing at first that person you were with show you they don’t need you. They will start to think you were a winner then later become a loser.

The person will soon become dead weight to you because you start feeding lines to the one who thought was the perfect person for you. Then you sit and ponder that you really messed up somewhere and you try to figure out where you went wrong. It probably will never come to you. Staying out late night, coming in early in the morning, and making excuses to money spent somewhere else. With these excuses your loved one will get sick and tired of the loose rap. Then when you are out together, you begin to get jealous because your mate is getting attention that you were not giving to him or her. You have to come better than that.

The best thing is to take it back to where you begin with that person and try not to make it look like you are trying so hard with it. Start with a simple dinner at home and candlelight. It will be a start and take it one day at a time; and if in all reality, the person who has your heart will forget that you once messed up. Maybe you’ll be able to clean up your act.