You work hard all day at the office and then have to come home and clean house. You deserve the best life has to offer but, there is no one around to share the special moments with you. So on the weekends you do not have to work, you get all dolled up and go out. First thing, you must decide what to wear and then decide where to go. Where the girls and boys are. (men and women). The perfect place and the perfect time. You didn’t know about this but, you have just been invited to a gala event by a friend. Men and women always have friends to associate with.

The time has come to attend this special event. You get there late. Not intentional. You want to look your best. You walk in and every heard turn. It is a great feeling when you are the center of attention. After your nerves calm down, you mingle a bit with others and your friends. As the night prolongs you feel that coming out could have been a waste of time. As you are about to leave you are approach by the most popular person there. This person is the one who throws the event. As always it will be a friend of a friend who has given out your address.

You like the conversation between the two of you but you can’t stay long because you have to work in the morning. This person has taken a liking to you so he or she gives you their card to call. You go home starry eyed thinking about the person you just met and your day at work goes well. Do not be in a rush to call him or her because this will make you look like you are anxious. Wait at least three days before calling and ask if this person would like to go for coffee. Tea if they do not drink coffee. Discussing life over coffee is a beautiful thing. Schedule yourself for coffee if there is no time during the morning hours or day to get together.

This may lead to something big if you both have something in common. It is very important to see what each has to say about certain topics. The beauty of a date is the way a person smiles when thy see you and how much they enjoy your company when they are around. Not every situation works out that way; not every prince charming will cross your path but you will be able to not feel so lonely at night.