You have met this person who makes your heart skip a beat and you feel like at times the whole world has stopped on its axis just so that you two can enjoy that moment together. Far be it that the sparks will fly and you feel like this Is the person you desire to spend the rest of your life with. Pump your breaks. . .take a look at this person again. You must first see If you two have the same ideal interests. This may be the hardest thing to come by because a few will say they like the same things you do.

Read between the lines if you can, but as mentioned before DO NOT analyze too much. The conversation goes as such:

YOU: I like going for walks on the beach

HIM: You too?! I find it to be the most relaxing thing a person can ever do when it’s a beautiful night out

Translation: Let us take a drive down to the coast so that I can get to really know you.

But the person could really like doing those things and have good intensions. If a person is into you, the feeling will be so deep that the fire that burns within their hearts cannot be contained, and they want to spend every waking moment with you. If you are the type that do not mind a little bit of pampering, then this person is for you. Some people don’t know how to take that if they are not too affectionate.

YOU: My shoulders hurt

HIM: Do you mind if I give you a massage? I’m good with my hands

YOU: No thank you I can manage

He’s thinking at this particular time that you have just crushed his ego because all he wants to do is get close to you. There is nothing wrong with that but there is a limit. So instead of a massage (not good on a first date) just cuddle. That’s the type of intimacy a few admire in a woman or a man. These are the one who know what boundaries are. Once you get to know each other and spend that quality time together, it becomes surreal that you are finishing each other’s sentences.

Anything that comes along that may make the relationship difficult to handle, you sit down with each other as adults and work things out without arguing over what someone else has said, or what was heard by someone else. That ruins a relationship when there is a confrontation and no one in the relationship doesn’t want to listen, and they want to believe what is being said about them. When you come to an understanding and agree to not let anyone hinder from dating whom you desire to date, it is the person you are dating whom you need to deal with. Because in the end you are the one having to deal with the person you are dating. When other people see you happy, they seem to always try to find a way to break up the happiness because they are not happy themselves.

A perfect combination is when two things or people fit together like two peas in a pod, a stamp to an envelope and birds to a feather. Find which one you are.